If it doesn’t happen, it’s because it wasn’t supposed to happen

It’s easy to get overwhelmed by things.  It’s easy to start to worry.  But the best thing to do is to realise that everything that is meant to happen always happens.


So if you missed the bus, it’s cos you were never supposed to catch it.


If you don’t get the job, it’s because you were meant to get a different job, or because you’re supposed to keep your own job, or because in three months you’re going to meet the love of your life on the way to a different job interview which you would never be going to if you got that job.


Maybe, just maybe, (and definitely) the things that happen are supposed to happen.  We think we know what we want or need, but really, we don’t.  When we were six all we wanted was to eat sweets and ride the merry go round, but that would have proven to be inadvisable before long.  Just because we don’t get what we want, doesn’t mean we won’t get what we need.  And maybe we will get what we want, if we happen to want what we need.


“Everything that happens is exactly what is supposed to happen.”


This post is about accepting reality in order to reduce stress about the future.  By accepting any outcome, you choose to over come what ever happens, and find happiness in it.  What ever happens, you will always get back up, brush yourself off, and carry on.  It’s all good.



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